Archive for the Being the change category
Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
My friend Aleem is a skilled and sophisticated communicator. He was the spokesperson for the UN Mission to Afghanistan for many years and is now doing the same work in the Sudan. If he wanted to, Aleem could give us a 30 minute speech on the complex dynamics of peace and conflict. But today, on [...]
Posted in Afghanistan, Being the change, Good things | 3 Comments »
Sunday, September 18th, 2011
So it turns out I’m in good company. There are quite a few of us hanging out in the itchy-scratchy place. Which means it was worth telling the truth about how I’ve been feeling and it is certainly worth sharing a little bit more of what I’ve been learning. I finished my last post with [...]
Posted in Being the change, self care, Sitting still, Writing, Yoga | 4 Comments »
Thursday, September 15th, 2011
Uncertainty is itchy. Change is scratchy. Today Pema Chodron told me (at least, her Twitter-bot @PemaQuotes did): Discomfort of any kind also becomes the basis for practice. We breathe in knowing that our pain is shared. I’ve been in plenty of discomfort lately. I’m going to tell you a bit more about that because I [...]
Posted in Being the change, Connecting, self care | 9 Comments »
Wednesday, May 25th, 2011
Last week an article published in Psychology Today asserted that black women were less attractive than women of other races. I really don’t want to give too much more attention to the article, nor do I want to debate the methodology of the researcher. But I do want to talk about how I reacted to [...]
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Friday, April 8th, 2011
(This is a revised version of a post I wrote a while ago. I’ve been playing big in new ways since then and – as you do – uncovered new nuances in my relationship with my fears. I’m posting this edited version in honour of the fabulous Tara Mohr and her Playing Big offering) It [...]
Tags: playing big
Posted in Being the change, Good things | 12 Comments »
Friday, March 25th, 2011
Remember when I said that I think we each have our very own kind of medicine for the world? And we make our medicine by learning how to heal ourselves? Well, my friend Jen Lemen has some powerful medicine for you. This is her poem, her gift to you. Her medicine for anyone who is [...]
Tags: healing, medicine
Posted in Being the change, Good things, self care | 11 Comments »
Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011
The change-maker I’m interviewing today is the woman who is teaching me what true servant leadership looks like, and showing me that real authenticity has survived the bastardisation of it’s name and is alive and well. Jen Louden is a teacher, author, leader, change-maker and friend to many women (and men) all over the world. [...]
Tags: jen louden, teaching
Posted in Being the change, Five questions: Interviews with Change-makers, Good things, self care | 10 Comments »
Saturday, March 5th, 2011
Guest post by Kara-Leah Grant, creator of The Yoga Lunchbox In conversations with friends and family up and down the country over the last two weeks, there’s a palpable feeling of change in the air. As owner of Dunedin Yoga Studio Emma Furness emailed to me yesterday: This awakening thing is getting closer – someone [...]
Tags: eqnz, guest post, Yoga
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Wednesday, January 12th, 2011
Remember how I decided to try to raise US$20,000 for HIV/AIDs projects in South Africa? How that was about the same amount that I earned in 2009? How the whole idea scared the sh#t out of me because I didn’t know if I could do it, and because I hate trying something, especially publicly, and [...]
Tags: seva, south africa
Posted in Being the change, Letting go, Ways to help | 22 Comments »