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Saturday, May 12th, 2012
When I sent this photo to my sweetheart, he wrote back: “I think you may have found your calling.” And I think he might be right. I learned a lot over the past three weeks, most of it not for the first time. I was reminded, for example, how much I love having an excuse to interview people. [...]
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Friday, May 11th, 2012
“Let go and let God.” It’s a mantra of the self-help group, Alcoholics Anonymous. After spending a couple of weeks in Afghanistan, I’m wondering if it’s time for the international aid community to adopt the same approach.
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Monday, May 7th, 2012
Yesterday was my 40th birthday. I woke up, for the first time in my life, thinking of all the people who I’ve loved who didn’t make it to 40. I was sad and deeply grateful at the same time. Is this what aging feels like? Am I going to wake on all my birthdays from [...]
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Saturday, May 5th, 2012
Yesterday was World Press Freedom Day. As with International Women’s Day last month, not everyone around here feels like celebrating. This morning I met a young journalist whose exposes on corruption in Ghor province have seen him arrested and jailed twice in the past year and led to a death threat from a prominent local [...]
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Friday, May 4th, 2012
When I was in Herat I drove past my old guesthouse several times. It is no longer a UN guesthouse, the guard box out the front is gone. Every time I drove past I wanted to stop, go inside and climb up to the roof where I used to practice yoga and breath in. Or [...]
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Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012
Yesterday I returned to Herat. I haven’t been here in four years. I’m staying in the guesthouse where I lived when I first moved here in 2006. I was met at the door by the same house manager and cook who took care of me when I first landed. Two of the current house occupants [...]
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Monday, April 30th, 2012
On 6 May, I’ll be 40 years old. I will be celebrating my birthday in a guesthouse in Herat, where the only people I know are highly well-behaved Afghans, and one (relatively, by Afghan standards) less well-behaved Italian. As you might imagine, my birthday celebrations are likely to vary considerably depending on whose company I [...]
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Sunday, April 29th, 2012
I had lunch with an old friend today. Scott was one of the very first people I met in Afghanistan and during the six months I lived in Kabul we became close. Close enough that when I inscribed his book today I wrote: For Scott, who I like too much to have put in my [...]
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Friday, April 27th, 2012
As I type this I’m sitting in a quiet, almost entirely beige room in a guesthouse in Kabul. The muezzin just began the afternoon call to prayer. The sounds is soothing and familiar. Everything about Kabul feels more familiar than I had feared. People had told me the city had changed so much in the [...]
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